Men have been the economical, political, and social leaders in many different cultures for centuries. Until the twentieth century, women were considered only as housewives and mothers, as though they were got good enough to lead and work. And though in many cultures, this view as changed, in places such as Pakinstan, India, and China, these stereotypes of women as cooks and child-bearers still hold true. In these families, men are in complete control over their wives, over money, over their children. And yet, women seem to have a better grasp at dealing with these things. Though men try to tell the children what to do, mothers are the ones who truly raise the children. When men get ahold of money, they will spend it on frivolous things -- alcohol, prostitutes, and other luxuries. Women would be much more careful by spending money on education, children, or saving. They tend to prioritize, while many men are merely greedy.
On the Ivory Coast, both men and women grow crops for a profit. When the men's crops have a good year, they spend the majority of their money tobacco and alcohol. However, when women's crops have a good harvest, women spend their profit on food and nutrition. Children are healthier when women prosper versus when the prosper. If women are always this prosperous, the quality of life in these regions could improve greatly. Not only would poverty become less of a problem, but children would live longer and health would improve.
In China, woman are now finding work in factories. During the Industrial Revolution, working in a factory was seen as exploitation, but in for impoverished women in China, it is empowering. Many of them are the breadwinners of the family. Chinese men are doing more domestic chores and daughters are becoming more valued. Not only do urban families settle for a daughter, they may prefer one, for she is more likely to take better care of her parents in their old age.
It is also interesting to notice that men don't seem to think women deserve education, but when women are
educated and empowered, the can contribute greatly to their community. If more women are educated, instead of either dying young or being enslaved, many failing countries could become stronger and more prominent. The best hope for these countries right now is not going to war or bombing their enemies, but the education of it's women.
Men's fickle attitudes towards women are surprising to me. Saima Muhammad was a woman who's life was falling apart until she became self-sufficient and took the initiative to begin her own embroidery business. Her husband was unemployed, so she took it upon herself to become the support of her family. Before her business, Saima's husband would beat her and treat her as though she were totally irrelevant. He was even contemplating taking a second wife who would possibly bear him a son, since Saima had only given him daughters. When Saima went to the
Kashf Foundation to get a $65 loan to start her business, she became the main supporter of the family. Her self-sufficiency earned her a great deal of respect from her husband. Saima's story proves that if more girls are educated in Pakinstan, India, and China to become business women and earn a salary, less families will suffer from poverty, leading ultimately to the reversal of poverty in those counties.
Before reading Three Cups of Tea and this article, I would not have thought women's education would be so crucial to improvement of these countries. Of course, I have always thought women should be treated equally and deserved education. Everyone deserves a chance to learn and succeed. But reading these two pieces have opened my eyes to since such a simple solution to a huge problem. Putting money in the hands of men has proven ineffective. However, when women are in control, they are more responsible. The education of women could change the poor state of these countries forever. And when the issues in these countries begin to improve, the United States' relationship with these countries will improve.